The Project – Turning the formal dining room into a reading room

Yesterday I bought something on Craigslist for the first time. For the last month I have been stalking the furniture listings knowing that many people would be getting new furniture for Christmas and cleaning out due to resolutions. Some of the “great” condition pieces of furniture were far from it and that was just from looking at the pictures. Being on a tight budget to convert our formal dining room into a reading/sitting room kept me determined, or more or less made me a Craigslist stalker of sorts. On Sunday after hitting the refresh button way too many times I came across a listing that said “Help me keep my new year’s resolution” and there was a picture of these beauties.

The price $225 for both. I knew I had hit the jackpot. I contacted the poster immediately, praying they were not some crazed killers or into a cult looking for new members. After hearing back plans were made to go see them, with Mr. K of course, the next day. When we got their the couple were as normal as you and me and as nice as they could be. The sofa and loveseat  combo were perfect for our project and the right price – SOLD! Thanks to friends who helped us haul them back to the house an hour later.

I have a lot of ideas swirling in my head for this room in the house and Mr. K is letting me and my gay boyfriend have complete creative control. I am hoping in the next few days the accent color on the walls will be on. A beautiful and bright blue teal or turquoise. We’ve been getting our design inspiration from Pinterest, of course.

One of the things we are planning on doing is making a rug for this room from old t-shirts. I’m pretty sure we have totally lost our minds but since I have more time (LOL) than I have money at this juncture, plus it would be totally cool, we have decided to make this attempt. Inspiration came from this t-shirt latch hook rug tutorial. So over the next few weeks spray paint will be my friend and I will be visiting garage and estate sales this side of the Mississippi state line in search of interesting and cool accent pieces and hopefully some large pieces of furniture to store all our crap books and games in like this piece below.

As this projects progresses don’t be surprised if I begin begging my readers to send me their old teal and turquoise t-shirts for the rug.

Starting the new year off right

January is going to be a month of reading and reconnecting. Over the past several months the kids and I have spent way too much time in front of our screens and not enough time outside, being crafty, or having our noses in books. We are going to be restricting our time online and from playing electronic games to doing things the old fashion way.

One of the things I will be working on is bread making. I am determined to become a bread baker! I have failed miserably over the years but with some help from my friend Stacey I think I can overcome my brick style loaves and crispy crusts.

My oldest son Dylan has really taken an interest in cooking and baking so we have decided to feed his interests. I am incorporating cooking into his schooling which I think will really help him. He learns better when he can apply math and science to real life. I also think this is a skill that he can perfect and eventually do for work. I want my kids to do what they enjoy, that will give them the lifestyle they desire.

Our youngest son Jack will be getting headgear and braces on Wednesday. I am nervous. He will have to be in it a year and will need to wear it 16-18 hours a day. He has had some serious jaw issues over the last few months and I am thankful for good insurance and the ability to save the money up to pay for this.

Time seems to be passing too quickly. I am about to be a mother of a fifteen year old, who will be learning how to drive! It seems like yesterday she was five and going off to kindergarten. Now she is a young woman. Who I might add has the perfect figure. She is now a sophomore in high school.

It’s those little girls I am afraid that are going to do me in. The four year old is a total flirt and already chasing boys and the six year old is more like me than I care to admit. I will be spending the next few months getting them both to read. I’m also busy planning a fifth birthday party for Kara, who keeps changing the theme. She also wants a dog which is absolutely not going to happen.

Odd confession for the first of the year: When I do searches on the internet, especially on odd topics or subject matter, I wonder if they will ever be used against me in a court of law.

Project Goals For January:

Paint Living Room

Paint accent color in new reading room

Heavy duty cleaning in laundry room, organization, and painting

Finish pajama pants

Create Banging Wall in back yard on the fence

Decorate for Valentine’s Day

Homeschooling Goals: (this doesn’t encompass everything we do, just the ones there will be more focus on)

Reading and Fluency

Writing a book report

Application of money skills in real life

Journal Writing

Date Plans:

Go to museum and picnic in the park

Bowling

Afternoon Hike

Treasure Hunt

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Choosing Joy In 2012

I’m snuggled in the bed under big blankets next to Mr. K. I am sick. My only semi-off week and I’ve been sick for half of it. I am not sure if this was a blessing or a curse. I’ve slept a lot.  I’ve read a lot. I’ve enjoyed doing nothing.

I quit my job. Yes, a job I loved. A job I got so much out of. I made new friends, challenged myself, and learned new skills but it was time to move on.

But I will still be working. More on that new-old adventure later.

A new year is upon us. 2012. I can hardly believe it. According to old Bible teachers I had in highschool and church sermons from pentecostal pews we shouldn’t be here. But we are. I am not like other Jesus followers, there is no urgency on my part to go to heaven. I like living right here, right now with these people I love. There is so much to learn here, do here – I don’t want to miss out.

I’m looking forward to 2012. New stories. New adventures. More life lessons. 2011 taught me to live in the right now. Soaking in every moment. Noticing the simple things no matter how fast I am going or what I am doing. Spiritually I feel more defined.

I’m not sure I need resolutions. I just need to take action, one foot in front of the other working towards a life more meaningful, more enjoyed. Savoring the bitter and sweet. Embracing new and old relationships. Choosing joy.

In the new year there will be date nights and weekends away with Mr. K. We both learned that we need time together, just us, undisturbed and unplugged.

Recycle, reuse, and upcycle will be a theme for our family this year.

Service. Involving every member in our family in acts of service.

Family nights. Unplugged.

Healthy meals. Homemade breads, cooking from scratch, and gardening.

Spending time in the woods and in the water.

Crafting and reading alone and as a family.

What are you going to be doing in 2012 to make your life more enjoyable?

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Lots of little tid bits to share tonight.

After two weeks of going between 17 and 20 lbs lost I finally broke the plateau today. I have now lost 21.5 lbs. YES! I had really wanted to be down 30 lbs by Christmas but having my mother in law here causes me to stress eat. The following week wasn’t much kinder between staying out late and going to court with my girls back to back. However this week I was back on the plan and eating right.

A few days ago I missed taking my anti-anxiety medication. By noon I literally felt like I was going to crawl out of my skin. Before the sun set I was a nervous, ranting lunatic. I won’t be missing one again. To think that is how I felt all the time is mind blowing. So far I have had very mild side effects from taking 60mg of Cymbalta. Some of them have gone away but I have a few that are just strange that have stuck with me. Since taking this medication I have had difficulty spelling and speaking. When I type or write I misspell common words frequently, rearrange words in my sentences, and make common grammatical errors that I otherwise would not make. When I speak, I sometimes say things backwards or out of order. It doesn’t happen all the time but it happens enough that other people notice it. I wonder if this is going to go away and how common a side effect this is.

My Christmas shopping is finally done. We are going to be making some homemade gifts and goodies for friends and grandparents this year over the coming weeks to save money but also to move the focus from all the commercialism from this time of the year. We talked to the kids about it and they seem to understand. I think the past year or so with seeing so many of their friends struggling it was really a no brainer. Of course in general I have been talking a lot with the kids about keeping life simple and finding joy in the small things.

I am already busy laying out plans for the new year. I have some big goals. One is recycling and upcycling. Another is buying everything with cash. And I mean with hard core currency, not a debit card. I have already started making the transition. In fact today I bought my lunch today with change. My other goal is to use free cycle for items we need or buying used, including our clothes. The latter will be hard. We are also going to be moving away from commercial cleaning supplies, including our clothes and dish washing detergents. In our homeschooling we have been learning a lot about unethical business practices and how companies put fillers in foods and cleaning supplies, not to mention the harmful chemicals. So we are going to try to practice what we preach and believe in, plus it is more economical.

As for homeschooling, it is going really well. My teen is a little less motivated these days but I think that is the nature of the beast. The boys are doing really well even though they complain at times. I still haven’t found a history yet that I love much less like and we are not doing a formal Math until January, but I am very happy with our language arts program, spelling, and science. January we are going to be sinking ourselves into reading and writing, religion, and history and I plan to weave it all together to save on time. We all are going to spend less time in front of a screen, that I definitely know. I should knock on wood but I think I finally have found my groove and homeschooling style.

I will close with this – Mr. K is doing well. He had a bit of relapse but seems to be coming back from it. He is taking it slow and easy in the gym and doing his “brain exercises”. Even though there are unknowns still we seem to be coping better (we are both on meds so this could have something to do with it!). Though the past year has sucked in many ways there have been a lot of positives from having experienced this medical crisis – an even stronger marriage. Our kids have noticed it and our teen says she appreciates that her parents really love each other and take time to be together even though it kinda grosses her out. We can live that.

 

Maybe I did, Maybe I didn’t

knock knock knock …. anyone still around? I know, I am neglecting this whole blogging thing. Neglecting my writing. Just today I finally got caught up in my reader. Things have been crazy around these parts.

In fact insane.

Since the last time I wrote here I may have become an ordained minister. Email me if you are in South Alabama and want me to marry you and your significant other.

I found out it is not a crime to have sex with animals in the state of Alabama. It is only consider illegal if it is considered cruel. Don’t ask me how that is determined.

I may have blessed out an attorney who was being a total ass outside of a courtroom. Trust me, he deserved it.

My anti-anxiety meds make visits with my mother in law bearable.

I may have agreed to work two weddings in the next year, for free. One for someone I love, the other for a complete stranger.

No I am not addicted to Pinterest. :::cough:::

I may have done this:

I may have smoked way to many cigarettes in the last 30 days. And I am not a smoker. Well not really.

I have completely failed at the whole Before 38 list. Next time maybe I should be more realistic.

I may have big plans in store that you are about to become aware of.

Maybe.